May is National Foster Care Month
About Foster Care
About Foster Care
Frequently Asked Questions 


How can I become a Foster Parent?^Top

Every state has its own rules about foster parenting. However, the chances are good that you can be a foster parent in your state.


There are many more children in need of temporary care than there are foster parents available. To fill this gap, states are looking for people who

  • want to help children
  • can share their time and their homes
  • are married or unmarried
  • are young or older
  • are any race or religion
  • work outside the home or stay at home
  • will complete an application, agree to a background check, have a home inspection and personal interview, meet state and/or local licensing requirements, and are at least 21 years old.

Your state will prepare you for the responsibilities of being a foster parent, and will support you once you get started. Some of the kinds of help you will probably receive include

  • information to help you decide if fostering is really for you
  • training on your state's rules about fostering
  • training on how to work successfully with children in foster care and their families
  • continuing training on different aspects of fostering, such as fostering a teenager or dealing with behavior problems
  • financial assistance in the form of a monthly maintenance payment for each child in your care

Learn who to contact about becoming a foster parent by reviewing the National Resource Center for Permanency and Family Connection's document, Contact Information for Foster Care Inquiries (By State).

 



How do I become a Court-Appointed Special Advocate (CASA)?^Top

70,900 CASA volunteers serve 237,000 children in over 900 local programs nationwide. To find out more about becoming a CASA volunteer in your area, visit the CASA website.



How do I report that I think a child is being abused or neglected?^Top

Each State designates specific agencies to receive and investigate reports of suspected child abuse and neglect. Typically, this responsibility is carried out by child protective services (CPS) within a Department of Social Services, Department of Human Resources, or Division of Family and Children Services. In some States, police departments may also receive reports of child abuse or neglect. For more information or assistance with reporting, please call Childhelp®, 800-4-A-CHILD (800-422-4453), or your local CPS agency.


The Child Welfare Information Gateway, which provided this information, publishes toll-free numbers for state reporting hotlines. Visit http://www.childwelfare.gov/can/index.cfm and click on Child Abuse Reporting Numbers at the bottom of the page.



I would like you to link to my organization's website.^Top

The National Foster Care Month campaign is a partnership of fourteen national organizations that support foster care issues throughout the year. Unfortunately, we cannot provide general information links to local and regional agencies and service providers. Click here for more information on how you can support the National Foster Care Month effort by linking to this site.



How do I become a mentor?^Top

You can become a mentor to a young person in your own home town, or you can become a "virtual" mentor (vMentor) to a young person anywhere in the United States.


To find out how to become a mentor to a child or young person in foster care in your local area, visit the website of MENTOR. Most states have a local mentoring partnership which can help connect you with an organization in your area.


The vMentor program is sponsored by Foster Care to Success. Visit the vMentor website to learn more about this program, which matches volunteers with young adults ages 16-23 who are, are formerly were, in foster care.



How can I get statistics about foster care?^Top

There are several places on this website that provide statistics on foster care:

  • Our Statistics and Data section provides basic statistics about foster care in the United States at the national and state levels, as well as national statistics about the overrepresentation of children of color in the U.S. foster care system.

For more statistics, see:



How do I order a toolkit/poster/ribbon?^Top

You can order pins and ribbons, posters, and toolkits in our online store.



How can I learn more about foster care?^Top

Explore this website to learn the facts about foster care and to gain an understanding of the needs of those touched by this issue.


Each of the partners in the National Foster Care Month effort can provide you with more information.



How do I start a Blue Ribbon Event?^Top

The National Foster Parent Association website provides all the information you need to start a blue ribbon campaign in your area.

 

Visit our online store to find pins and ribbons for your campaign.

 

Find an event that has already been planned in your area.



How do I donate money to an organization that can help children and young people in foster care, or their foster parents?^Top
There are many organizations that can accept your donations of money or goods to benefit children, youth, and foster parents. Here are a few of them:
  • Each year the Foster Care to Success awards college scholarships to thousands of students in every state. This scholarship program is funded solely by donations from individuals, foundations, and corporations.
  • The National Foster Parent Association provides scholarships for youth in foster care and accepts donations to its scholarship fund.


    Where can I find resources to help my research on foster care?^Top


    How do I go about starting a group home for children/young people/pregnant teens?^Top

    Each state has its own regulations governing group homes. You should start by finding out the requirements for becoming a foster parent in your state. See our FAQ "How can I become a foster parent?"



    How can a foster parent get respite care?^Top

    Respite care is short-term care of a child in order to give the regular caregiver a break. Respite can be for a few hours or a week or more.


    Each state or county has its own procedures for foster parents to get respite care, and many private agencies also provide their own forms of respite.


    If you are a foster parent or kinship caregiver, your first step should be to check with your social worker to find out what types of respite, if any, are available to you.


    Other sources of information about respite care are:



    How much training does it take to become a foster parent?^Top

    Training requirements for foster parenting vary from state to state. Most states require both training before you become a foster parent (pre-service training) and ongoing, or in-service training, to maintain your license.


    You can find state requirements for both pre-service and in-service training on the website of the National Resource Center for Family-Centered Practice and Permanency Planning.



    How can I locate my child/parent/sibling/relative who is (was) in foster care or who was adopted?^Top

    If your relative is currently in foster care, begin by contacting the agency that placed him or her. They should be able to provide you with information about your relative’s custody.

     

    You may wish to consult an attorney who specializes in these matters. You may be eligible for low- or no-cost legal assistance. You can find information about qualifications for free legal aid and locating an attorney in your state on the website of the American Bar Association.

     

    If your or your relative has been adopted, you should contact the state reunion registry in the state in which the adoption took place. You can find that information by visiting the National Adoption Directory online database. Select the state in the pull-down menu, check State Reunion Registry under Statewide Services, and click on "submit search."

     

    Another organization that helps with search efforts is Bastard Nation.



    Do you have a newsletter?^Top

    There is no regular newsletter associated with National Foster Care Month. However, several of the partners in this campaign do have newsletter to which you can subscribe:

      1. WeR4Kdz E-Bulletin is an e-bulletin; each issue covers a single topic affecting children, youth, and families in a brief, reader-friendly format, with links to further information on the Internet.
      2. Children's Monitor keeps you informed of the key children's issues being debated in Washington, with the latest information on federal legislation, regulations, and policy affecting children, youth, and families.
      3. The Kinship Reporter provides news, updates, and more from professionals in the field and from grandparents and others who are caring for the children of family members.
      4. The Link is a quarterly newsletter that explores the link between involvement in the child welfare and juvenile justice systems.
      5. Residential Group Care Quarterly examines the latest developments and issues in the field of residential care.
    • Children's Bureau Express is an online newsletter designed for professionals concerned with child abuse and neglect, child welfare, and adoption. It is supported by the Children's Bureau, Administration for Children and Families, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services and published by Child Welfare Information Gateway.
    • The National Foster Parent Association publishes the National Advocate quarterly. This print-based newsletter highlights current issues and topics of interest to care givers, lists supportive resources available, and provides opportunities for involvement in the organization as well as in the child welfare community. Subscription is included in membership fee.

     



    How do I start a petition for my governor/legislature/mayor/town council to declare May as National Foster Care Month?^Top

    Use our sample letter to ask your elected officials to declare May as National Foster Care Month.



    How can I raise awareness about foster care issues in my community?^Top

    Our Change a Lifetime Menu offers suggestions for several ways you can raise awareness about foster care issues, such as wearing a blue ribbon, writing a letter to your local newspaper, sponsoring or taking part in a foster parent appreciation event, or promoting National Foster Care Month with a link on your website.



    How can I show my support for foster parents and/or children and youth in foster care?^Top

    There are many ways you can show your support for children and youth in foster care or for foster parents. See our Change a Lifetime Menu for some suggestions to get you started.



    How do I adopt a child from foster care?^Top

    There are about 104,200 children in the United States waiting for adoptive homes. Many children are adopted by someone who already knows them – a foster parent, mentor, or volunteer. It’s a great way to meet some children and teenagers who are looking for a permanent home.

    Every state has its own rules about adoption, but you can adopt a child from any state. There are many more children in need of adoptive homes than there are adoptive parents available. To fill this gap, states are looking for people who:

    • want to help children
    • can share their time and their homes
    • are married, or unmarried
    • are young or older
    • are any race or religion
    • work outside the home or stay at home
    • will complete an application, agree to a background check, have a home study, meet state requirements, and are at least 21 years old

     

    For more information on adoption, visit these sites:



    How can I find a foster care agency in my city/county/state?^Top

    Foster care services may be provided by public (city, county, or state) agencies or by private agencies that contract with the state. Each state has its own agency structure. To locate an agency that provides foster care services near you, you may have to try one or more of the following:

    • Many adoption agencies also provide foster care services. Search for Licensed Private Adoption Agencies and Local/Regional Offices of the State (Public) Adoption Agency in your state through the online National Adoption Directory.
    • Find member agencies of the Child Welfare League of America in your state.
    • Check your local telephone directory in the Blue Pages under Foster Care or Placement.
    • Contact your state foster parent association.


    How can I become a respite care provider?^Top

    Respite care is short-term care of a child in order to give the regular caregiver a break. Respite can be for a few hours or a week or more.


    Each state or county has its own procedures for foster parents to get respite care, and many private agencies also provide their own forms of respite.


    If you are a foster parent or kinship caregiver, your first step should be to check with your social worker to find out what types of respite, if any, are available to you.


    Other sources of information about respite care are:



    What can our agency do to recruit new foster parents?^Top
    • Use the materials and resources you find on this website to raise awareness about the magnitude of the need to find and retain competent, caring foster parents in your jurisdiction.
    • The National Foster Parent Association also provides technical assistance: find contact information for Karen Jorgenson, Executive Director on their website
    • See the following recruitment publications from the Child Welfare League of America:
    1. Foster Parent Retention and Recruitment: The State of the Art in Practice and Policy
    2. A Community Outreach Handbook for Recruiting Foster Parents and Volunteers

    Find additional resources and links on the following websites:



    How do adoption subsidies work?^Top

    Children with special needs may qualify for adoption assistance (also called "adoption subsidy"), which is paid to adoptive families to help them defray expenses related to their child's need for ongoing therapies or treatment. There are two major funding sources of adoption assistance: the Federal Title IV-E program under the Social Security Act and State programs, which vary from State to State. The Child Welfare Information Gateway, which provided this information, has several documents about adoption assistance/subsidies on its website.

     

    The North American Council on Adoptable Children maintains the national Adoption Subsidy Resource Center to educate parents and professionals on Title IV-E Adoption Assistance in the United States. Their website provides profiles on each of the state subsidy programs, definitions of special needs, and fact sheets on various aspects relating to post-adoption support programs.



    What states offer college tuition waivers for young people who are or were in foster care?^Top

    Many states offer tuition waivers or tuition assistance for young people who are or were in foster care. Check your state fact sheet on the website of the National Resource Center for youth Development to find out whether your state offers tuition waivers.



    Can I use materials I find on the National Foster Care Month website on my website or in my newsletter or other printed materials?^Top

    All of the materials you find on the National Foster Care Month website are available for your use. We encourage you to reproduce and distribute them widely. We do ask that you include the following citation:


    Source: National Foster Care Month, www.fostercaremonth.org



    How do I adopt a child from another country?^Top
    • More than 380,000 American children under 18 are in foster care. About 104,200 children in foster care are free for adoption. Every year, about 26,200 young Americans age out of foster care without a legal, permanent connection to a caring adult.
    • Please consider adopting a child or young person who needs your help in the United States. Visit the website of AdoptUsKids to meet some of these children.
    • For information on the process of adopting from another country, see the resources on the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.


    How can I get help when I turn 18 and leave the foster care system?^Top

    The John H. Chafee Foster Care Independence Program was created in 1999 with passage of the Foster Care Independence Act. This program provides services to both youth in foster care who are preparing to transition to adulthood and youth 18-21 who have already left foster care and need assistance. It was designed to:

    • Help young people who are likely to remain in foster care until 18 years of age make the transition to self-sufficiency by providing services such as assistance in obtaining a high school diploma, career exploration, vocational training, job placement and retention, training in daily living skills, training in budgeting and financial management skills, substance abuse prevention, and preventive health activities;
    • Help these young people receive the education, training and services necessary to obtain employment;
    • Help these young people prepare for and enter post secondary training and education institutions;
    • Provide personal and emotional support to young people aging out of foster care, through mentors and the promotion of interactions with dedicated adults; and
    • Provide financial, housing, counseling, employment, education and other appropriate support and services to former foster care recipients between 18 and 21 years of age; and
    • Make available vouchers for education and training, including post secondary learning and education, to youths who have aged out of foster care.

    Visit the website of the National Child Welfare Resource Center for Youth Development (NCWRCYD) for more information about this program, including state fact sheets that have information on state Independent Living coordinators, administration of Chafee dollars, services for youth over 18, and more. You may either view all of the information on one state or query all of the states on selected topics. The pages are provided through a partnership with the National Foster Care Coalition.



    How can I connect with other alumni of foster care?^Top

    There are several national organizations that can help you connect with other young people online or in your own local area:  

    • Foster Club is a place you can go to get encouragement, motivation, information, education, and learn about benefits you might be entitled to. You can join this online club and get information about foster care, including articles, questions and answers, message boards, contests, discussions, and even biographies of famous people who grew up in care.
    • Foster Care Alumni of America helps alumni of foster care to connect and advocate for positive change, at both the individual and systems level. 


    How can I get custody of my relative child who is in foster care?^Top

    Child custody decisions are made by individual state, county, or city child welfare agencies in conjunction with the local courts. You should begin by contacting that agency. Check the local government section of your telephone directory. The agency may be listed under “child services,” “child and family services,” “human services,” or another name.


    To find out more about kinship care in your state, see the State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children developed by The Children's Defense Fund, AARP, Casey Family Programs, The Brookdale Foundation, Child Welfare League of America, Generations United, The Urban Institute, and Johnson & Hedgpeth Consultants.

     

    You might want to contact an attorney. You can find information about qualifications for free legal aid and locating an attorney in your state on the website of the American Bar Association



    How much do foster parents get paid?^Top

    Foster parents do not get paid for the job of caring for children; they receive a reimbursement that is intended to provide for the needs (e.g., food, clothing, school supplies, etc.) of the children in their care. Each state sets its own rates for reimbursement. You can find current foster parent reimbursement for most states in "Foster Care Maintenance Payments," a document prepared by the National Resource Center for Family-Centered Practice and Permanency Planning.



    How can I obtain health insurance for a child I am caring for?^Top

    All children who receive foster care payments from their states are automatically eligible for Medicaid.


    If you are caring for a child, usually a relative, under another program, such as unlicensed kinship care, you may be able to enroll the child in your State Children's Health Insurance Program (SCHIP). Visit the Insure Kids Now! website to find out about free or low-cost medical insurance in your state.


    Additional information about health care for children may be available on your State Fact Sheet for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children, developed by The Children's Defense Fund, AARP, Casey Family Programs, The Brookdale Foundation, Child Welfare League of America, Generations United, The Urban Institute, and Johnson & Hedgpeth Consultants.



    How can I become a legal guardian to a child in foster care?^Top

    Each state has its own laws and regulations concerning guardianship. Most have subsidized guardianship programs, through which a person, usually one who is related to or known to the child, provides a permanent, safe, loving home. Guardians under such programs may receive a subsidy from the state to help provide for the child's needs.


    You can find links to extensive information about subsidized guardianship, including state-by-state information, at the website of the National Resource Center for Family-Centered Practice and Permanency Planning.



    Can I become a foster or adoptive parent if I or my spouse is in the military?^Top

    AdoptUsKids, a Service of the Children's Bureau, has published a resource guide on adoption by military families, which include the steps to becoming an approved adoptive parent. Although these steps are used to describe the adoption process, readers are encouraged to make adaptations to the foster care licensing/certification process as applicable. Most are pertinent to becoming a licensed foster parent, particularly in States that use a "dual licensure" process to approve families for both fostering and adopting. Click here to find this guide, "Wherever My Family Is: That's Home!"



    How can I foster or adopt a Native American child?^Top

    Foster care and adoption of Indian children is regulated by the Indian Child Welfare Act of 1987 (ICWA). A short explanation is available in a brochure from the National Indian Child Welfare Association titled "The Indian Child Welfare Act: A Family's Guide."

    For more information about Indian children in foster care and adoption, see:



    I would like you to read/publish/publicize my book, poem, story, play, or movie.^Top

    The National Foster Care Month partnership does not publish the works of individual authors. You should locate a reputable publisher whose products are similar to yours. There are reference books available that list many resources for writers.


    The National Foster Parent Association accepts submission of articles for its quarterly newsletter, the National Advocate. Contact:

    Karen Jorgenson, Executive Director

    Email: kjorgenson@nfpainc.org


    If you are a young person in foster care or an alumni of foster care, check these resources:



    How can I obtain funds for education, camp, equipment, or other needs?^Top

    For information about post-secondary scholarships for young people who were in foster care or adopted, see:

    For information about education and training vouchers created under the Promoting Safe and Stable Families Amendments of 2001 and provided by states, see:


    For other services for yourself or a child or youth in your care, contact your local social services organization or faith-based institution. Begin with your own case manager, who may be able to direct you to available funds.


    Contact your state or local foster parent association.


    The National Foster Care Month partnership is not a grant-making organization.



    How can I locate a foster/adoptive/kinship caregiver support group?^Top

    It can be very helpful to talk with others about experiences like your own. Here are some resources that can help you find a group or even start a new one:



    There are also many online support communities, such as:



    Where can I find out about conferences about foster care?^Top

    Here are several major conferences you may be interested in:

     



    How can I honor the foster parents who do so much to help the children and youth in my community?^Top

    Use our toolkit to find ideas for events, a sample letter of appreciation, and materials to help you publicize your event in your local media.



    Can I use your logo on my website/printed materials?^Top

    We encourage you to use the National Foster Care Month logo on your website, linking it to www.fostercaremonth.org. You may also use the logo on printed materials.


    A variety of Foster Care month logos and graphics are available on this website on our Logos & Graphics page.



    Can I link to your website?^Top

    We encourage you to link to the National Foster Care Month website, www.fostercaremonth.org. You may want to download and use one of our logos for your link.



    How can I get on your mailing list?^Top
    Just send us an e-mail from our Contact Us page.


    How can I advocate for change in the foster care system?^Top

    Begin by educating yourself about the facts about foster care and the needs of those touched by this issue. About Foster Care

     

    Visit the following websites for information about advocating for foster care issues:



    How can I contact one of the Foster Care Month spokespersons?^Top

    Official spokespeople make a commitment to take part in a variety of national events and activities organized by the National Foster Care Month partnership. If you are a member of the media and would like to interview a spokesperson or issue expert, please contact:

     

    Cathy S. Nolan
    Right Tree Consulting, LLC
    cathy@righttreeconsulting.com

     

    For all other non-media inquiries, please note that some of the campaign spokespeople are professional motivational speakers or performers who may be booked for speaking engagements and events. Links to their own web sites that have contact and booking information can be found on their profile pages.



    How can I get money to build an addition on my house so I can foster or adopt more children?^Top

    Every state has its own programs for housing assistance. For information about your state, please contact your state's Housing Finance Agency. You can find contact information on the website of the National Council of State Housing Agencies.



    What is a "resource parent?"^Top

    There is no one single definition of this term, but it is being used in many places to describe individuals who are willing to support children, youth and families involved with the child welfare system.


    National foster care and adoption organizations use the term resource families to better reflect the changing role of caregivers. Resource families include foster and adoptive parents, kinship and guardianship families, mentors, and respite caregivers who provide support, guidance, advocacy, and nurturance for children and youth and their families. Resource families also make valuable contributions to the system of care and the community as well as being a source of support for each other. The term is meant to be more inclusive and reflect the dynamic role that caregivers play.



    How can I get my child back from the child welfare agency who took him or her?^Top

    The National Foster Care Month partner organizations are not able to intervene in individual child welfare cases. We suggest you go through the following steps in order:

    • Make your concerns known to your worker, his or her supervisor, and the agency diretcor, in that order.
    • Follow any grievance or appeals procedure set up by your agency.
    • Contact an attorney. You may be eligible for free or low-cost representation through legal services. You can find information about locating an attorney and qualifications for free legal aid in your state on the website of the American Bar Association.


    How can I get help with a problem I am having with an agency?^Top

    If you are experiencing difficulties with a child welfare case, we suggest you go through the following steps in order:

    • Make your concerns known to your worker, his or her supervisor, and the agency director, in that order.
    • Follow any grievance or appeals procedure set up by your agency.
    • Contact your state or local foster/adoptive parent association. They may have experience with either your agency or your problem.
    • Find out if your agency is accredited by the Council on Accreditation for Children and Family Services (COA).
    • If it is, concerns about the agency can be reported by following the COA procedures.
    • Contact a child advocacy group in your state. Find a local contact through Voices for America's Children.
    • Contact an attorney. You may be eligible for free or low-cost representation through legal aid services. You can find information about locating an attorney and qualifications for free legal aid in your state on the website of the American Bar Association.


    How can I get legal advice about my child welfare services case?^Top

    You may be eligible for free or low-cost representation through legal aid services. You can find information about locating an attorney and qualifications for free legal aid in your state on the website of the American Bar Association.



    How can I put my child into foster care?^Top

    If you are having difficulty caring for your child, you may be able to have him or her taken care of by a foster family for a period of time. However, most foster care agencies will try to help you keep your child at home by providing services or referrals that can help you work through whatever difficulties you are having.


    You can contact your local foster care agency for more information about voluntarily placing your child in foster care or receiving services to help you keep your child at home. See our FAQ "How can I find a foster care agency in my city/county/state?"